Alignment Is Scary

Alignment is scary. This is something I don’t think gets talked about enough and it trips people up. Their fear rises up and they start doubting themselves. They start questioning themselves. So I’m gonna say this again, alignment is scary. Following your ‘higher self’ will bring up all your shit. Answering the call of your […]

Extreme Loyalty Is A Trauma Response

I don’t know who needs to hear this, but extreme loyalty is a trauma response. Loyalty is thrown around as a positive thing without nuance. It’s used to manipulate people to stay in dysfunctional relationships. I’ll say this louder for the people at the back – EXTREME LOYALTY IS A TRAUMA RESPONSE! What do I […]

Be Effective

It was a full moon, a full moon in Taurus. It was an eclipse too and the moon woke me up. In fact, she’d barely let me sleep. When she has a message, she’ll shine so bright, roar so beautifully, she pulls you in. And, a witch has a job to listen. To answer the […]

18 Things That I Wish I’d Known Before About Healthy Relationships

Here are 18 things I wish I knew decades ago about healthy relationships. 1) Fanastising and being attracted to other people is normal. YEP, I said it. I went there. Yes, I’m gonna piss some people off by saying it and I’m gonna say it anyway as I want to normalise this very normal thing […]

It Did Do Harm – An Open Letter To The Grandparents & Those With Adult Children

Dear those with adult children and grandparents, It did do harm. Some of the things you did, did harm. We aren’t fine. Many, many of us struggle. This isn’t to blame or shame you. You did the best you knew and we all get it ‘wrong’ and by no means am I saying this is […]

The Sisterhood Wound Runs Deep

I haven’t written a blog post in almost 2 years and it’s been 3-4 years since I blogged consistently, but this is something I felt called to share. The sisterhood wound runs deep. Real deep. Betrayal, heartbreak, very conditional love, humiliation, competing, jealousy, judgment, and rejection all leave a scar. I remember being 17 and […]