Be Effective

It was a full moon, a full moon in Taurus. It was an eclipse too and the moon woke me up. In fact, she’d barely let me sleep. When she has a message, she’ll shine so bright, roar so beautifully, she pulls you in. And, a witch has a job to listen. To answer the […]
It Did Do Harm – An Open Letter To The Grandparents & Those With Adult Children

Dear those with adult children and grandparents, It did do harm. Some of the things you did, did harm. We aren’t fine. Many, many of us struggle. This isn’t to blame or shame you. You did the best you knew and we all get it ‘wrong’ and by no means am I saying this is […]
The Sisterhood Wound Runs Deep

I haven’t written a blog post in almost 2 years and it’s been 3-4 years since I blogged consistently, but this is something I felt called to share. The sisterhood wound runs deep. Real deep. Betrayal, heartbreak, very conditional love, humiliation, competing, jealousy, judgment, and rejection all leave a scar. I remember being 17 and […]
True Love Means You’ll Have Boundaries

I really came to realise in the last year how true love means you’ll have boundaries. In all my relationships that flourish there is a lot of respect there and the ones that don’t flourish there is either no respect or I simply haven’t put boundaries in place (AKA I’m not respecting or honoring myself). […]
My Choose To Rise Story – Then To Now. The One Thing That Changed Everything.

My Choose To Rise journey has been anything but smooth. My Choose To Rise story is the same as most people’s. You realise sometimes you just have to Choose To Rise because you get so fed up with the shit, you get so tired of being sick and tired, you get bored on your own […]
Rising From Negative Emotions

I leapt then nosedived. Not literally, but the last week and a half I totally felt like that. Stepping into the wilderness of being truly vulnerable has been something I’ve always tried to do since watching the Brene Brown Ted Talk on YouTube years ago. It really resonated with me because authenticity is everything. If […]
Our Perfectly Imperfect Wedding Renewals

As I mentioned on my Instagram our wedding renewals didn’t exactly all go smooth sailing, but it was perfectly imperfect and that’s what I wanted to talk about today. Life won’t always go to our plan, but if you look hard enough you can always find the beauty in it all. When the day was […]
Why I Haven’t Been Blogging

I don’t know how to start this blog post, it’s been months since I posted properly I almost feel I’ve forgotten how to blog. It’s been so long that I feel the pressure to get it right. That’s the very reason I haven’t been blogging recently. There was no pressure for me with regards to this […]
8 Things To Leave Behind In 2017

What can I say 2017, you’ve been crazy hard at times, but also utterly amazing. In fact, you’ve been one of the most brilliant years yet. Not because you’ve been super easy, quite the opposite in fact. You’ve been unbelievably challenging twice this year. You almost broke me on a few occasions, but on the […]
When You’re All Cried Out

Recently I’ve cried a lot. I cried this morning, I cried yesterday, I’ve cried pretty much every few days this month and to be honest I started to think I was just a bit pathetic. Worrying about everyone I need to buy for this Christmas, worrying about the cost, worrying I haven’t got thoughtful enough […]